Growth
For Couples
Mini Games · 07
Growth
10-15 mins
Round 1
Round 1
What Matters
Most
Most
Put these in order of what matters most to you right now.
Health
Career
Money
Adventure
Freedom
One person shares their order. Then the other.
Round 2
What We
Survived
Survived
Think about the hardest phase the two of you have been through together.
What did it change between you? What did you learn from it that you couldn't have learned any other way?
What did it change between you? What did you learn from it that you couldn't have learned any other way?
Think about:
A period of distance
A financial crisis
A decision
A loss
A phase where nothing went right
One person shares. Then the other.
Round 3
A Little
Like You
Like You
When you spend enough time with someone, you start becoming a little like them.
What about your partner has become part of who you are?
What about your partner has become part of who you are?
Suggestions:
Their patience
Their calm
Seeing the best in people
Their honesty
How they handle pressure
Their generosity
Their sense of humor
How they love
One person shares. Then the other.
Last Round
Their Version
of You
of You
A quiz to see how well you know each other.
If either of you has an iPhone or iPad:
1Open the Seesaw Social app.
App link: seesaw.social
App link: seesaw.social
2Go to Activities. Select ‘Their Version of You.’
3Share the link with your partner.
They can answer from any device.
They can answer from any device.
Both of you have an iPhone?
Create a link for each other. You'll each get your own report.
What does the report look like?
Here's what you'll see.
A similarity score of how well your partner knows you.
A scene-by-scene breakdown of how they see you, with patterns and a lot more.
Don't have the app?
Don't have the app?
Try this instead.
Try this instead.
Guess how your partner would answer each question. Then it's their turn to guess yours.
1. How does your partner handle a bad day?
Go to sleep
Talk it out
Stay busy
Be alone
Next
2. What does your partner see as their strongest quality?
How hard they work
How deeply they care
How honest they are
How well they handle pressure
3. When does your partner feel most like themselves?
Taking care of someone
Alone with no agenda
Building or creating something
Surrounded by people they love
And that's it.
Hopefully you always stay curious about who the other person is becoming.
Next
Dreams
As you change, so do your dreams. Maybe there's something new to discover.
Inspired by principles from the book Eight Dates by John Gottman, Ph.D., & Julie Schwartz Gottman, Ph.D.
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Intro
A date night game to play with your partner on the topic of growth. Play it on the couch together or over a call if you're apart.
